Day In The Life: Rebecca, Kevin & Jackson
These sessions are ambitious, real, exhausting and some of the most fulfilling of any sessions I take part in. I get asked all the time, will you just follow me around for the day? I laugh it off and then the issue is mute. Not this time.
What started as an idea to add this as a business service, quickly became something bigger. It turned into a personal project to show families as they truly are. Regardless of race, financial status and age, my goal was to capture 1 day in the life of a few lucky families that wanted to partake and see a stripped down and raw version of themselves together. What came out of this 8th (crazy that it is the 8th by the way) attempt is still something l can't really put into words. I don't know if I ever will honestly.
There is joy, laughter, scrapple, bamboo toilet paper, chocolate milk, horse farms, pick up sticks, spirit horses, poop chocolate, imagination, youth and most importantly…family connection. I am showing you the whole collection in one shot again. No teaser, no come back later to see the rest. This is the finished product. It was shot and edited completely in B&W. No color, no Photoshop retouches. Nothing. I couldn't think of a better way to get the right impact out of these moments below than in glorious B&W, my favorite medium. I shot what I saw, there was no direction. Not once did a "cheese" come out of anyone's mouths. The restraint and having to hold back from the typical engagement with the family is still so so so hard, but the result is something truly special. Getting to know these 4 even further and vice versa was a fantastic take away. I got a very joyful goodbye from both kids and adults alike. My heart melted on Sunday. Loved this day.
I was asked years ago, "Do you like taking pictures"? I replied with, "I love telling stories with my pictures". I hope that this resonates with you. In fact I hope it does with a lot of you. Whether it triggers a memory, makes you laugh or even makes you cry of moments of yesterday. Life is fleeting. It goes so fast. It is crazy to think this was a single day and that 364 follow this to make up their year.
As I drove home, I left with a better appreciation of what parents go through on a minute to minute, hour by hour basis with their kids. It is really damn hard. Having kids is no picnic and as me and Allison have completed several stages in the process of our Adoption Journey we will find out soon enough I hope..
Rebecca, Kevin and Jackson. We have known each other for a little over 6 years. I can't think of a better family to treat this kind of session to. You’ve helped grow my business, we see each other multiple times a year and I consider you more friends than clients. And I felt that right away. It truly wouldn't have been right without you guys doing this project with me. You are always commenting, curious of how your sessions go and just get so pumped when you see the end result. You had to be apart of it. You let me into your world for a single day and that is not something I take lightly at all. We talked, we laughed (as always) and below is your family from an outside perspective. If anything, this collection proves that you guys hustle hard, communicate (even over who washes the dishes and 52 rolls of TOILET PAPER) You work so hard to keep this kiddo moving until he collapses watching Spirit and having 3-4 books read to him. Seriously, you both were amazing to watch in action. It was really inspiring and you do this every. single. day. Kudos for making it look so damn easy. You knew what you signed up for (Becca, I know you were a little scared) and I hope Jackson will reap the rewards of what you've done for him. So...yeah. No more mushy mush. We had 14.5 hours together. This is what it looked like. xoxo.